No matter what.
Rule 1. Your letters are above all else. - Remember that all of your actions, big or small, now effect all of your Greek sisters/brothers, especially those who have pledged their heart and loyalty to the same letters as you have. Stop and think before you act.
*Never gossip about inter-fraternity/sorority problems to someone, ANYONE, outside of your fraternity/sorority.
Rule 2. Never knowingly cause to your sister(s)/brother(s) harm or pain. - Either physical or emotional. If harm is unintentionally done, quickly make right the situation by talking and/or apologizing to them first. Never be afraid to talk to your sister(s)/brother(s).
Look to your sisters/brothers for strength, guidance and friendship. Keep an open mind, as we are all individuals; we all feel and value things differently. Remember that you are forever and honorably bound by your loyalty for your letters.